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New Year's Resolutions!

Happy New Year!

This is a time for new possibilities and opportunities.  We make new resolutions and start afresh.  It's a great time to let go of old patterns and start new beginnings.  I love it! It's not always easy for people to do this, but they set intentions for the new year, but it's sticking to it.  So what we need is motivation!

Motivation and determination.  We need to have things to remind us of what our intentions are… you have to do things to help yourself otherwise we slip back into the same pattern.  I'm sure you are the same. The intention is set for a week or so and then it slips and it goes and then before you know it you are back in the old habit and cycle.  So we need to help ourselves stick to the plan and the goal and we can manifest our dreams. 

So think about this… 

You have to work out what type of person you are, i.e.… visual, auditory or touchy feely and then that will help you decide what is good for you. 

This will help you… which phrase do you find yourself saying when you agree or understand what someone is saying to you.

"I see what you mean?"

"I hear what you are saying?"

"I know how you feel"

Now from that you can determine what type of person you are. 

If you say the first you are visual, if you say the second you are auditory and if you say the last you are more of the touchyfeely type.

Now to help you maintain your goals and intentions you can do something to help you, so here's some ideas. 

If you are visual then put up some pictures that will inspire you in places that you spend a long amount of time.  Such as your screen saver could be a picture of when you were thinner or healthy foods, if your goal is to lose weight.  If you want to write a book the create a picture of the front cover and put it up to inspire you.  You will come up with your own ideas but you need something to look at. 

If you are Auditory, then create a playlist of music that will inspire you to meet your goals.  If you want to lose weight come up with a playlist which will inspire you to move your body.  If you want to increase your spiritual gifts, then find some guided meditations that will help you.  Write down some affirmations that you can say to yourself and record them and play them back on your iPod.  You will come up with your own ideas but it will certainly help you. 

If you are touchyfeely, then you need to have something that you can touch and it will remind you of your goals, it could be a swatch of fabric, it could be a bracelet that you wear to remind you, it could be a ring that will remind you of your intention.  You will also find that if you are this type of person you will also be one of the other types too, so don't dismiss them… and do what feels right to you, to help you stick to your goals.

These are just some ideas and it will help but also call upon friends and family to help you do this too… you need support and this is a great time as everyone is feeling the same!

So believe in yourself and know that you can do anything that you put your mind too… so for me I just need to finish those two squares of Cadbury Milk Chocolate that I have hidden and resist any more chocolate!!! I know I can do it!!!

Happy New Year everyone!

Lisa xx

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Reader Comments (40)

Hey Lisa,

Happy New Year! Love the blog! Great ideas and tips...

OH MY... It is quite interesting that I came across this blog today. :) Although I learned through hard work to be more disciplined in all areas of my life, I admit that I totally began to go a little off track. It's okay to cut yourself some slack to test the waters, but now I must stop testing the water before I drown. It is so easy to fall back into old bad habits and yet not so easy to develop new good ones. It's so true that some are more visual while others are more auditory or touchy feely. Well, I have one big problem and that is that my close dear Brit friend is coming back from London with some Cadbury chocolate for me. I completely cracked up when I read the last line of your blog knowing that I will have my own stash in just a few days. So I will first have to finish my chocolate stash... and I am not sharing it either. LOL LOL How selfish we women become when it comes to chocolate... or am I the only one? :)

Big Hugs,
DS

January 3, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterDreamSpirit

Yes you can do it hahahaha love you , Happy New Year !!

January 3, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterLisa

We are all Teachers and Pupils.

Warm regards Joseph

January 3, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJoseph Landrut

I'm glad that this year is starting out so much better for you, I know how difficult the last few years have been. I always knew things would turn out the way the have,,,I just had the wrong person in the picture.....as long as you and CB are happy that is all that matters to me.

/since 2007 I have carried around with me a crystal that appeared literally out of know where in the middle of an indent in the ground. You had not been feeling that well and had a show to do, I was at a class, so I excused myself and went to send you Reiki Healing before you went on stage.

When I can back to the class, that is when I found this rare crystal. I knew straight away it was meant for you, and for well over a year every time I would see you I wanted to give it to you but something always came up.

Everybody seemed to have a hard time telling what it was,so when I got home I took it up to the university and had them inspect it.

According to the geology professor it is a double terminated rose quartz, self healing into a lavender amethyst. he commented he had never seen one like it and that it was very rare. It is still in it's natural state and still has a little Sedona dirt on it!

It is time for me to pass it on,and my hopes are that one day when you are done with it, CB will get it and it can be carried down. It has been a great stone for me. I would suggest doing a good cleanse & charge on it, I am giving away things that mean to me for a reason, so you will want to remove that energy before using it. It's only about 1.5 in long. I always wanted to take part of it and make it into some kind of jewelry, maybe you will be able to do that it you want.

I hope that you find it to be as awesome of a crystal as I did the last 4/5 years I have had it. I have actually felt lost without it the last few days.since I packed it up and sent it off to you and went on my last retreat. Till our next journey together..i wish you love, respect, honesty,and true friendship with the person you and CB share your life together with

Blessings,
LD

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterLondon

I am so sorry for every mistake that was made between us.

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterLondon

Hi Lisa,

A Happy New Year to you too. I hope 2012 brings you everything you wish for.

Good ol' Cadbury's... for me, there is no other chocolate to beat it... definitely my biggest weakness!

Your advice is excellent. I am pleased to mentioned that you can fall under more than one category. I was wondering about that when I realised I was mainly visual, but also audio, because I love being inspired by music as well.

Putting pictures up is something I know I should do because I tell myself to do it often enough. I even have the pinboards and tacks to do so. I just haven't followed through. Your prod has reminded me what a good idea it is. When we move homes and I need to decorate or think of design ideas, I buy stacks of house and garden magazines and build up a portfolio. It's a brilliant idea... so thanks!

I never thought to analyse it in terms of your personality type. A friend who does my "healing" massages and treatments, just mentioned it the last time I went to her. She spoke about it in the context of me trying to get a point across to my hubby... lol. I need to use words that trigger him focussing on what I am saying as opposed to his laptop or the TV. Him being audio, I need to say something like "can I have your attention for a few minutes please while I tell you something?" This is supposed to shift his attention to me. It's the same concept.

Hopefully I will have success in posting my comment. I haven't been able to post for over a year now. For some reason it bombs out... hmm. It has made me reluctant to post since it's a bit of a bummer when my words disappear out into the universe somewhere never to be traced again.

A beautiful and much more joyful 2012 to all of you who post here. Let's all hope and pray that we start moving forward out of this recession the whole world has been in.

Hugs,
Jeanette

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette

Yay... my comment posted successfully.

Jeanette

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette

Is it beyond chance that I came here today and read everyone's comments? Hmm... interesting!

Blessings,
Netty

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette

Happy New Year honey !!!! hope you and the Family are having a great break and taking it easy. Your blog brought a smile to my face with the chocolate reference ! I think there are a few of us who can relate, lol

Anyway, miss you guys madly and cant wait for our cruise later this year.

Lots of love and hugs to you all,

Jenny xo

P.S. Jesse said to say Hi to Charlie and hopes he has had a chance to play with his water gun xoxo

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJenny Everett - Smith

:)) Thank U so much!:))Motivation..a little bit.. & determination...a little bit...presence..consciousness..hmmm.Plan:Loose 8kg by july 2012...Heal a little bit every day...Meditate a little bit every day...Listen to lisa Williams every day..:)Read a little bit every day.Drink lots and lots of tea(with milk of course)everyday..Be more present in the now..Travel more and more..(Macchu piccu..Alaska..mm)master of Reiki and Karuna..Believe that it is possible..Less excuses for not doing it..:))Less sugar..Less tv...more activity..more bounderies..more love..Joy,fun,and laughter..Lots of love to You &Holly (Listened to her radio show.:))You go girl!!)),and your charlie barley.<3<3<3

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJanet Øvretveit

Aloha to all,
First I must share that I recently read Lisa's most current book and it was, hands down....one of the best books I've ever read and i've been a long time devotee to spiritual reading. When I came across her book via my new Kindle Fire, it was the first one I read on it. When I came across it I was in a very dark place in life and her book changed my brain in such a unreal way, I would never be able to put it into words that would do it justice!
So I was so happy to read that you can be more than just one kind of person, (visual, auditory,etc.) because for myself I can be all. It absolutely depends on who it is coming from and what feeling it conjours up inside of me.
I am so stoked to have become part of this family. I've been longing for quite some time to find people to want and be conscious, loving, aware Bothers and Sisters. I Love that my thoughts have been validated by all of you, by the words in your postings. I"m so happy to find people who really want to live a life of Peace, Honesty all supported by Love and Harmony with one another.
My hopes and dreams for this New Year is a complete change of (for the most part) a change in the human consciousness, so that we may heal one another and our precious planet....As a true leader of God Consciousness says, " We must be, the Change, We Wish to See in this World!"... For myself I think I have found like-minde people and i feel very Blessed and Grateful to Lisa and all our brother and sisters who have been guided to this awesome web-site.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~My Sincerest Regards, elf~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

January 4, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterelf

Beautifully said, elf... it is truly a wonderful experience when something or someone new arrives in one's life that has a life-changing effect. Lisa, and her site, has indeed been that, and so much more, for me too, so I totally hear where you are coming from.

According to an encouraging and uplifting thread that a member posted on Lisa's boards just recently, is that the shift in our human consciousness is going to come with the big change that is said to be coming in 2012, and it is not in fact the end of the world, but the beginning of a greater consciousness and we are going to see the end of the dominance of darker powers and lighter energies are going be a stronger force. This is apparently according to Mayan elders and experts. We are supposed to be shifting from the 4th Sun into the 5th Sun which previously occurred 26,000 years ago. I am not sure of the facts, but I found the article uplifting and heartening.

Welcome to Lisa's extended family.

Blessings,
Netty

January 5, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette

Perfect for my goal beginnings:) Thank you!

January 5, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterColl

Bonsoir Lisa,

Wish that i've could be wishing you an happy new year..

But clearly this is not the case.. I thought that the link was over but it's not.
Fact is that i can sense you over from whatever distance it can be.

And i feel you're aren't doing well as it should be or sounds like to be.. don't blame me, cause it's part of the connexion on soul's level.

One thing i would like to know is why you cut the bridges.. with no notice or explanation at all..
You simply didn't response at all.

I lay you a hand cause i deeply know that love as friendship is worth more than hatred..

My e-mail door is still open, you know where to find me..

;0)


Éric de Québec

January 5, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterÉric de Québec

Aloha to All,
This is in to Netty's response to my posting on the 4th, and all the rest of us that are connected through this present life experience! So Netty, I've heard this very same thing through a few different spiritual people here in the islands. I for one absolutely believe it. I don't even believe the world is going to come to an end. I do believe the earth and the people who inhabit it are going to change, by a shifting of consciousness. I for one am looking forward to what lays ahead! When I was in my dark, depressed state of mind, it was over the hanious ways in which people all over the planet were treating one another. On the other hand, even though I was extremely depressed, I knew deep down inside that something [ositive was getting ready to happen...
Thank-You so much Netty, for once again re-affirming what I've been hearing about. It makes me want to try even harder on being the best person I can possibly be!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~Mahalo A Hui Ho, elf~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

January 6, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterelf

You are so welcome elf... I think the bigger we can build the swell of positive energy, the better for our future.

This article was quoted on the forums board on Lisa's site. It lifted my spirits no end, and relates exactly to what we are speaking about, so I thought I would take the liberty of posting it here. I really don't think anyone would mind:

Mayan Elders speak out about the 2012 Prophecy
Mar 2011 by Janhvi Johorey

"Anthropologists visit the temple sites and read the inscriptions and make up stories about the Maya, but they do not read the signs correctly. It’s just their imagination. Other people write about prophecy in the name of the Maya. They say that the world will end in December 2012. The Mayan elders are angry with this. The world will not end. It will be transformed.”- Carlos Barrios
Carlos Barrios, Mayan elder and Ajq’ij (is a ceremonial priest and spiritual guide) of the Eagle Clan who initiated an investigation into the different Mayan calendars circulating studied with many teachers and interviewed nearly 600 traditional Mayan elders to widen his scope of knowledge.
Carlos found out quickly there were several conflicting interpretations of Mayan hieroglyphs, petroglyphs, Sacred Books of ‘Chilam Balam’ and various ancient text. According to the Mayans, we are currently in the era of the transition that is taking place between the World of the Fourth Sun and the World of the Fifth Sun.
The indigenous have the calendars and know how to accurately interpret it — not others. The Mayan Calendars comprehension of time, seasons, and cycles has proven itself to be vast and sophisticated. The Maya understand 17 different calendars such as the Tzolk’in or Cholq’ij, some of them charting time accurately over a span of more than ten million years.
Mayan Day-keepers view the Dec. 21, 2012 date as a rebirth, the start of the World of the Fifth Sun. It will be the start of a new era resulting from and signified by the solar meridian crossing the galactic equator and the Earth aligning itself with the center of the galaxy.
At sunrise on December 21, 2012 for the first time in 26,000 years the Sun rises to conjunct the intersection of the Milky Way and the plane of the ecliptic. This cosmic cross is considered to be an embodiment of the Sacred Tree, The Tree of Life, a tree remembered in all the world’s spiritual traditions.The date specified in the calendar Winter Solstice in the year 2012 does not mark the end of the world.Many who have written about the Mayan calendar sensationalize this date, but they do not know. The ones who possess the knowledge are the indigenous elders who are entrusted with keeping the traditions.A Mayan elder who lived in an isolated, solitary cave for years came recently to a Mayan ceremony in Guatemala to speak about the human beings as a race facing the challenge of overcoming the dark side and letting the light emerge , so that in the World of the Fifth Sun, there is unity in mankind and polarity has been overcome so much so that the dark side is no longer supreme.
In his words ,"Right now each person and group is going his or her own way. The elder of the mountains said there is hope if the people of the light can come together and unite in some way. We live in a world of polarity — day and night, man and woman, positive and negative. Light and darkness need each other. They are a balance.”
"Just now the dark side is very strong, and very clear about what they want. They have their vision and their priorities clearly held, and also their hierarchy. They are working in many ways so that we will be unable to connect with the spiral Fifth World in 2012.”
"On the light side everyone thinks they are the most important, that their own understandings, or their group’s understandings, are the key. There’s a diversity of cultures and opinions, so there is competition, diffusion, and no single focus.”
Mayan Elder Carlos Barrios has further elaborated that ” We live in a world of energy. An important task at this time is to learn how to see or sense the energy of everyone and everything –people, plants, animals. This has become increasingly important as we draw close to the World of the Fifth Sun, for it is associated with the element ‘ether’–the realm where energy lives and weaves. Go to the sacred places of the Earth to pray for peace , and have respect for the Earth which gives us our food, clothing and shelter. We need to reactivate the energy of the sacred places. This is our work.”
He said the elders have opened the doors so that other races can come to the Mayan world to revive and maintain the tradition. "The Maya have long appreciated and respected that there are other colors, other races, and other spiritual systems. They know that the destiny of the Mayan world is related to the destiny of the whole world.”
"The greatest wisdom is in simplicity. Love, respect, tolerance, sharing, gratitude, forgiveness. It’s not complex or elaborate. The real knowledge is free. It’s encoded in your DNA. All you need is within you. Great teachers have said that from the beginning. Find your heart, and you will find your way.”

I know it's quite long, but worth reading I thought.

Hugs,
Netty

January 7, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette

Hi LIsa,
Thank you for the insights on the different personality traits and how we may derive some motivation and inspiriation in sticking to and reaching our goals... I did as you mention fall into more than one category!!

It is always an inspiration in my personal life just being here.....

January 7, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterTerry Truono

Hi Lisa

When you come to the UK next will you be doing any personal readings or workshops? If so, I would REALLY like to know how I could get involved.

I think you are fantastic and wish you, Holly and Charlie a safe trip.

S
x

January 10, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterSarah Johnson

i loved your blog i am looking forward to seeing you at the 02 in march also at the meet and greet happy new year to you all so pleased you are coming back home take care love joanne

January 11, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterjoanne holloway

Just want to wish everyone out there a Happy New Year...love, good health and happiness for all of us!l

January 12, 2012 | Unregistered Commentermichaelindc

id love to join your site but cant afford it do you have another i can join n is it realy you i need your help

January 14, 2012 | Unregistered Commentersue brook

Hi everyone and happy new year. I am new to this site so I don't know if this is the right place to ask my question, but I'm gonna do it anyway! ; )

I was just reading the old monthly chat transcripts where Lisa was talking about angels and earth angels. Lisa explained earth angels to be humans that the angels have chosen to work with people on the planet and help them (at least that's how I understood it). My question is, if someone is an earth angel are they aware of it? Or do they just live their lives doing what they do because they feel it's the right thing to do?

Thanks for your help.
Love and peace,
pixie

January 15, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterpixie

That was really funny about the chocolate..silly!

January 19, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterAaliyah Jackson

Well my guides are not helping me life is miserable have no one not anything to live for I am just abandoned what's the best way out of here how do I end it I've been at this torture for 30 years now I give up

January 21, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterWaytootired

to waytotired: sad to hear you feel like this :( please ,wait for lisa to reply to you, please.

s xx

January 21, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterkorelle

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