You can only open the door!
Thursday, March 17, 2011 at 08:10AM Finally we are home... and I can't tell you what it feels like to have spent 2 nights in my own bed! Pure heaven. No aching back from the different beds, Charlie happy to see us, mom and dad relieved to see us so that they could get their life back, the dogs tails wagging as we walked through the door. It was great.
Back to normal... or so they say!
Although I am not sure that waking up at 3am is normal in my world, nor ignoring emails and work until now, but even so, I'm happy!
The tour was incredible, it's had it's highlights but it was also extremely grueling and hard work, hence why emails have been ignored and life put on hold. I suppose people see the fact that I am traveling from place to place and meeting different people is glamourous, but I often comment on the amount of back alleys, and kitchens and very unglamorous stair cases that I have to walk up and down... it's hardly what you would consider glam. But I love it.
But the tour for me had a very big lesson for me, and that was trust and also speaking the truth. It wasn't an easy lesson but it was something that I had to see. I also had to work out who had my back and who didn't and that is always a big lesson.
I am one of those people who immediately has faith in everyone who is placed in my pathway thinking that they will provide what I need... and all of the time they do... even if it's negative, what they provide me with is a lesson.
This was it. Yes I had Holly who was there for me emotionally and trust me, when I say I needed it, as I don't think I have ever cried so much, but this was time for me to stand up and speak.
Yes it's been a lesson that I have been learning for a while and I have blogged about it, but this really hit home. I had to be blunt, honest, direct, and not worry about how it was taken.
But what I also realized was that even though I was the one who had to say their side of things, I knew there was a lesson in the it for others. I was showing them a pathway, a truth that maybe they hadn't seen before. However you can show someone the door but you can't make them walk through it. And this was the case. I had to point out some things but is is up to others to see it and allow them to recognize it within them and it's only then that they can do something about it.
I'm not sure if they will... as I don't think that they have seen it... yet... but when they do, they will understand it and see the light and maybe do something about it.
You can't change how people want to see things at all, but all you can do is help them and this I feel was my lesson, I had to stand up and help others see what they need to see. Who knows if it will help, but thats not my journey that is there's but I only hope it will.
So don't force someone to see something, just show them the way and then let them find their pathway. Some will go in circles, others will directly make the changes and take responsibility but know that we all have lessons to learn through everything even the negative parts of life.
Right, I can't put it off, it's time to open the emails and down load however many there are and face life head on...
Thanks to everyone who came to see me on tour, I had an amazing time even though it was hard, the easiest part is doing the work I love and meeting everyone who comes to the shows! Thank you to all of you.
With love
Lisa xx
Reader Comments (59)
Welcome Home.
Hey there Lisa,
Love your blog! If you could see my face right now after reading your blog, I have a big glowing grin because I know although this may have been a really hard lesson, you will benefit by it. I know you have a huge heart and want to save people from their own distructive ways because you can clearly see their future, but all you can do is show them the way to that door... YES...l love it. You cannot be attached to the outcome and this will be such a relief for you. As a medium/ psychic on your level, there is being responsible to others which is quite different then taking on their responsibilities. So bravo to you for seeing this through. This is quite healing for you I imagine. Glad that you had support of Holly being there when this happened. Rock on girl!
Love n Light,
Laura
Lisa, 'you can lead a horse to water, but a pencil must be lead'. Can't force it on them. Oh if only we could........
You have an amazing heart. Where you wanna show people the door, I wanna boot them there !!! But your right, you cant force someone to see something they arent willing to. Life is full of lessons and eventually we get them.... maybe not always at the time there put in front of us, but we do get them. It's great that you could recognize your lesson in this and I hope that whoever this was has learned thier lesson as well. We all have to !!!
As much as it does seem appealing to travel and see the world, it definately has it's down falls and I dont see it at all as being glamourous really. Your working, so trying to fit in the fun in between that has to be difficult especially when your going from one town to the next and one country to the next in such a short period of time. It's got to be chaotic and you still remain upbeat and positive.
You believe in your purpose and reason for being there and so many people believe in you !!!
I am so glad that you and Holly are back safe and sound. Love you Lisa.... stay beautiful, stay you and keep shining. Your an amazing person with a beautiful gift. Thanks for sharing all your experiences with us.
Atmos
Lisa, it's always great to read your blogs so thank you!
Also, your new book arrived on my doorstep today and I haven't been able to put it down - brilliant stuff!
Good luck with the emails, but don't forget to rest and have 'you' time!!!
Take care XxXxX
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3.
l am so proud of you Lisa, love you Racca xoxoxox
Listen to you! .. Bless. :) i'm so glad you had a great time, i'm also glad Lisa you confronted what you needed to, there are definitely great blessings in both and very easy to put off what is uncomfortable. I am so glad whatever it was you felt it was right and you followed through. The blessings sometimes come much later and sometimes you may not even see them ... but they always come. Hugs!!
xoxox <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
I'm a long time Extended Family Member, and i can honestly say, as God as my witness, you always have my support Lisa. This includes Holly as well, and i can swear on a book of bibles, i have always loved and supported you with all my heart. I am forever faithfull, and most ever grateful, to you XXX You may not know this, but i am always, true to those i care about..I am not easily influenced by other people, i have my beliefs and i stick to them....Take care, glad you have your bed back, nothing could be better...
I AM SOOOO HAPPY you and Holly made it home SAFELY I have missed you lots!
I hope to chat soon love you
Thank you so much for visiting us in Australia...so pleased you and Holly are home safe...thanks for being an inspiration and helping those find their path - including me...I am half way through your Spiritual Journey course...and wow...I have heaps to learn...but as they say...its all about the journey...not the destination...
THANK YOU!!!
Sharryn
Glad you and Holly arrived back safely!! ((( hugs))) I really loved your blog and as always you shine through even with the negative people in your life!!
Thanx to Holly for being there with you and supporting you she is one in a million!!!
Re the negative people that have been in your life and have and may still well cause issues and whoever they are well they are going to be in shock when they are in the" Waiting and Viewing Room" thats mentioned in your book maybe only then will they "Wake Up" and look into themselves,feel the pain they have caused and "Grow" from it!!!!!!!!
Both of you have a good rest and see you again in the near future woo hoooooooo!!!!
((((( Love,light & positivity)))))
Maureen xxooxx
lisa
thank you for coming to australia i watch your show on w every saturday night and just absolutley love it u are so special and beautiful
i went to your show in sydney at the state theater and had a meet and greet with u made my night so keep up the good work lisa and a big hello to charlie xx
I am new to knowing of you Lisa but you sound like you are well tuned into the spirit world and from what my friend said after seeing you in Perth you helped the people who needed it most and that is always a wonderful thing! I feel the need to share something with you and for what reason I am not sure so I will do it any way! Obviously someone out there needs to read it!
I just wanted to say that 'perception is projection', what you project out is what you receive back. When things are going wrong or we are being upset by someones actions then it is a part of ourselves that we are upset with or do not like! To change and take charge of our life is a great thing and we must all take responsibility for creating ALL things in our lives, the things that sit well with us and the things that challenge us! As a baby my mother crossed over but she did not leave our sides for many years. My up bringing was challenging and there was many a day I wanted out! I remember her words to me as a child,'All things happen for a reason and you must learn from them', I have lived my life knowing we are here to learn and grow. In recent years I have totally taken responibilty for MY LIFE, I CHOSE IT and I CHOSE MY LESSONS. I create my future and all that is and will happen in it, I AM IN CONTROL OF MY OWN DESTINY as we all are.
As for death, our loved ones only lose their physical bodies but you all already know that!
So lovely to meet you again at the Mandura. venue. Thank you for a great show. Maybe next time you may come down a little further to Bunbury which is an hour from Mandurah??.
God bless
Michele with one el
Big hugs to you and everyone there. Glad you are home now and do try to look after you and have a rest, your emails and material things wont go anywhere. i loved the way you worded your blog, i usualy use the old you can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink. I also can be blunt at times saying whats needed to be said not what they want to hear, normaly we agree to disagree. lol. i have been told i hate you because you always seem to be right, now go on say i told you so. but i dont as long as they get it in the end im happy after all im only a conduit for the message in the first place.... but i do love how you word things... you have such a good way with words... hugs and love always...
How did you know I've been dealing with this issue for the past few months, your words always hit home when we need them the most :) you are amazing..Glad you & Holly are home safe & sound and things went well for you..Go easy on yourself you will catch up in time..I'm sure Charlie is glad he has his mom back home, have fun playing catch up...Love you bunches sweetie, extra big hugs with a big kiss on the cheek :) .....mauder
Welcome home Lisa ! "Trust, speaking the truth, who has my back"? Boy.. I could write a book about those issues ! *smile* You are not alone. For me the self trust had to come first. I had to learn about "self trust" and I had to learn to have my own back. These are my truths.
I salute your courage & wisdom. I know you are strong and are attracting & creating your spiritual family. Crafting and creating a beautiful life for you & Charlie. Surrounding yourself with trustworthly, loving good Souls.
I can see it ! You are Loved.. Andrea
Lisa,
Australia loves you and will always give you a warm hug whenever you cross our shores. We understand we have to share you with the rest of the world but do wish you were here more often. Holly is amazing and her energy and sense of humour is a great comfort and I am sure at the end of the day it would be nice just to be together with a bottle of red and relax.
You give so much of yourself to others and I know that through your Extended Family we try to give back to you and let you know that your gift is appreciated and the healing you provide to others is life changing.
Hoping to see you back in Sth Aust we have so many wineries in the Barossa Valley that a day tour on a day off would be an excellent way to spend a day. It would also be a great place for an "I believe retreat".
Hugs and love
Mandi
As always, so good to see your blog beeing updated, it will be lowely to see you in Norway later this year,)
Hi Lisa, Happy to read that you're both home safely. As I promised at the Newcastle show on 9th March, I posted off your parcel Thursday 17th March, it's just a token to you both and for Charlie, hope you like it. I am sorry that things upset you enough to make you cry. I have been an extended family member for a couple of years now, so I have your back and believe in you and what you do, you are a good person with such a gift for helping people. You and Holly must be exhausted after all the traveling in & out of Hotels, planes etc. Have a good rest and chill out. Love to you both Therese
Glad you and Holly made it home safely. :) Great blog.. xxxx
So happy to hear you two made it home safe! Take some time for you!
So glad you are home, safe and sound.
Thanks for all you do for everyone, Lisa.
I need to learn that lesson: To let others make their own mistakes....not easy.
See you in June in Chicago.....