Don't force life, live it!
Saturday, September 11, 2010 at 05:04AM Norway has been wonderful and I am now in Trondheim and I love it here, the people are so lovely. I just had an interview and we spoke about many things and one of the things were the fact that we attract certain types of people in to our life.
What ever we put out to people and the way we treat others is often how we get treated, and it's amazing to see how true that statement is. We have to believe in ourselves but also we have to love and respect ourselves to honor who we are and then others will honor us also.
If we are kind to people then we will get kindness back.
It's funny as I was starting to think about certain situations that I have found myself in over the last few years and you start to realize that when you are around someone who is not so kind you may start to act that way to them, you react to them and you start to draw off their energy.
It's something that we do naturally and without realizing it. I know I did, but then I also knew that I was doing it, because we sometimes think that if we treat them the same way that they are treating us, then they will see how much it hurts.
But reality is you have to come from a place of love, and love yourself and treat people will love and that is all that you can do.
We often get ourselves into situations that we force also, we find that we want something so badly or that you know something is going to happen and you feel the build up with it, but you misplace the feelings. For instance, if you feel that you are about to embark on something big, you sometimes will be in a situation and you force that 'big' to be where you are.
And because you have forced it, it's not going to work it's not going to happen, you have tried so hard and you have pushed so much that it's painful. But you keep doing it because you 'know' that its emerging. And yes it's emerging but you don't realize that it's not until you have removed yourself from the 'forced' situation that the real thing is coming. And when it does it's big.
Its not something that I realized like an 'Ah ha' moment, because I knew it but while giving the interview today it made me remember it, and I felt like we should all remember it, as she said that she was in a situation and it all happened so easily and it felt right. She wanted to change it but didn't and worked through it and now she finds herself in the right space and time for what she needs in her life.
We all have free will and it's often our ego that forces life and situations because it's what people expect or think they want, but when you live with your soul and share the love that you have in your heart, the pathways will open for you, and you will finally see the right things for you. Of course we still have choices to make, but this is where we can just accept and grow and know that there are no coincidences and that things are meant to happen in the way that they are being played out.
Sometimes we can force to much so just remember, when things aren't working out the way you want or you expect, take an backseat, and be true and honest with yourself and think... is it something that I really want or need. And then allow things to happen in the way they are supposed to. It's not easy to change but this will help you in so many ways. Sometimes its not the right time in your life or sometimes we just have to move on and accept that that is the way life is.
However believe in yourself and know that when you really believe you can see the light ahead and that the pathways will open up for you.
With much love and healing
Lisa xxx
Reader Comments (46)
Thank you, Lisa, for taking time to share with us while you are off and running and so busy. It is always a ray of sunlight when I see you have posted.
Wonderful message.....an open mind always helps, too. You have to be open to change before it can happen.
Safe journeys, Lisa.....take care.
Thank you! I'm relieved. I know I was forcing a relationship the way I wanted it but I realized I have to step back..... <3
Thank U Lisa. This is so true, and I'm glad for being reminded. Enjoy the rest of your tour in Norway. I was at your first show in Bergen, fantastic experience, and I even got a message from beyond (one of the messages you read at the end). Thank you so much, it meant the world to me and my sister :-)
Take care! Lots of love and healing in return.
Mette xxx
Can't wait to see your show tomorrow here in Trondheim. I was psyked about the meet and greet, but just realized my membership has expired... Anyways, can't wait to se the show!!!
Amen Lisa!!
Advice well given as always.
wiiiii,my membership lasts till October!!!
WOW! ;0)
Great blog Lisa!
I just hope in a near future ...why not in 2012 ?!... That people will be more able to give LOVE to others freely in a genuine manner..
Sometimes it only takes a small gesture of LOVE towards someone to make a Big Spark !! And i like to see it into the Eyes of that person when it happens! ;0)
Glad that i've met you in this Life Lisa ... just a split second on the TV screen and i knew who and what kind of a person you are!!
LOVE is a good Thing! So spread it!! ;0)
PEACE AND LOVE EVERYONE!!
;0)
Excellent wisdom, Lisa, as always!
Love and Light
Lana
Hi my love,
Thanks for the blog my friend! As always you are so right!!
Know that you are loved not only by me but by so many out there.
I love you,
Mary
Hi Lisa...
I know this too... But I needed to listen to it one more time, and you were here exactly at the perfect moment !
I'm a clairvoyant too, (I'm Alice Kara from Montréal and Quebec, I was at your shows, the winner of the too tickets) and as a clairvoyant, we know our future. Like you, a medium told me about my life when I was 19. He saw every single thing. But he told me about my soulmate. I'm expecting her for 16 years now, as I know who she is, but she's not ready... I have nothing to do for this !
I'm having a lot of fun about it on my blog, but day after day it is harder not to "focus" on the time we are loosing.
Too years ago, her father came to see me in spirit, I had left away my feelings about her, and with his presence, everything came again in my mind. Since his message, I'm sending her every single breath of my love. Trying to erase from my mind all the doubts. And to live my life, only as a light worker ! (And not to think about my love life lol)
Oh gush, this kind of relationship is not easy !
I'm going to end as a "Sister Mary Alice Kara" until she will "see" me.
Hope it will be easier for you ;)
Love and Light !
Dear Lisa!!
Thank you, once again, for the wisdom you share in your blog.
As so many times before, it is an eye-opener for me.
AND.......!!!!
I AM SO MUCH LOOKING FORWARD TO SEE YOU, IN OSLO, MONDAY 13TH.
Lots of Love
Helga
Hi LIsa, thanks for another insperational words.. I am looking forward to see you on monday in Oslo, i'm excited and i am coming alone, everyone around me is sceptical even my husband but he is very supportive about this and glad on my behalf that i will able to see your show...can't wait :) hugs.
Lisa, I was at your show in Quebec City, the 31of August. I saw healing in the people who received your readings. I was curious to see you work. I had seen you on TV during numerous shows, you work in the same manner. I was a priviledge to be there, I believe in what you do.
Love,
Kate XXX
Hi, Lisa. I was at your show in Quebec City, August 31,2010. I saw the healing in the people to whom you did the readings. You do extraordinary work. I was curious to see you do your thing, I had seen numerous shows on TV and there is no difference, except seeing you live, which was a gift for me. I felt so priviledged to be there. Since the show, I read your blogs regularly.
Love,
Kate XXX
Trondheim, Sept 11, 2010
Hi Lisa, this was a great blog and a reminder of important wisdom. :)
Thank you so much for a fantastic show here in Trondheim!!! :D And the Meet & Greet before your show...can hardly describe how it felt...like to meet a dear friend you haven't seen for a very long time! Thank you for the big hug, I needed that one! :) And during your show and the readings, it was just like you were sitting home in my coach - you're so real, genuine, natural and calm at the stage. Even though we didn't get a reading this time, I'm so happy for those who did!!! :D And believe me - we will be back at one of your shows in Norway next year! Already looking forward to it. :) In the meantime we'll have to watch your show at TV... See you, Lisa. :) Hugs & love, Siw <3
Amen Lisa!
It's such a wonderful thing that you help so many people to have all too rare, amazing life experiences that help, heal, inspire and create a "I'll never forget this moment" memory! Life changing experiences. On top of that - you inspire all of us on a regular basis here. Such an abundance of gifts!
Take care of you and have a safe, blessed journey.
I (now) BELIEVE!!!
Hi Lisa,
So glad you are having such a wonderful time in Norway! I have heard great things about it! They are very advanced with civil rights and just the wonderful way they treat their citizens.
People do give off negativity, and unfortunately it gets absorbed by others. It is difficult to live in situations where you just feel like you are mutating into someone you don't even realise, and you never wanted to be! I have frequently heard people who are in a bad marriage say that they feel themselves becoming someone someone they don't like. It really does give us pause, and realise what we put "out there" can have far reaching effects on other people. I guess it is like when people tell us to do a ritual to protect ourselves against negativity, this is what they mean.
You have presented a happy positive side for as long as I have heard you, and have always been an inspiration to keep going even during adversity. I keep thinking back on times you wrote about in your first book, and how gracefully you got through them. Such strength, such determination, and such love and concern for others. That is what makes a person truly beautiful!
These are hard times for so many, and it is difficult to maintain a good, positive attitude, but not only is it good for our health and outlook to be positive, but we must remember that we should protect our loved ones, and keep up their spirits too! Some people seem to just be curmudgeons, or chronically depressed and can't help bringing down those around them, no matter how much effort is made to help them. In that case, one would be wise to wish them best, and let them do their worst ...alone! Don't allow yourself to be a victim!
Be well, sweetie & always very happy!
Love and BIG HUGS!
Cheryl
A wealth of knowledge, thank you.
your words create an awareness for me and only when we beccome aware of something can we begin to take the actions necessary in order to change it. I've learned to notice the signs and be grateful for the guidance that always presents itself.. it continues to inspire me and for that I am a better person. thank you for sharing your thoughts. :)
hugs,
Melissa
Hey Lisa!
Thank you so much for a fantastic show here in Trondheim this saturday. I was so nervous and excited before the show, that I had to hold my breath the entire time I was standing in line to get in. Otherwise I would have bursted out in tears! I don't know why really... I was just filled with emotions. And I was hoping and praying the whole time that my mother would come through and talk with you. After all, it's been 8 years since I last spoke with her, so I was really hoping that THIS WOULD BE MY CHANCE! Sadly, I was not the chosen one.
But I am definitly coming to see your show when you return! And I will be signing up for your extended family so that I'll have a chance to actually meet you!
Hope that you are well! And I am sending you all my love!!!
Britt.
Greetings Lisa!
I have read your blog and am truly inspired! I have had the pleasure myself of attending several exhibitions in Norway as well, in March of 09. My promoter, Oyvind Riibe has spoken so highly of you and what you say is true, the country is just beautiful and the people are incredibly gracious and humble; it's a true treat to be in their company. I am eager to hear of how your tour goes, and it makes me smile because what a wonderful opportunity it is that we can share what we do with so many who are seeking answers. The owners of the metaphysical shop I do readings at, Zero Point Crystals and Gems in Northern Idaho, had the pleasure to attend an event you put on recently in the states with John Holland and they truly enjoyed the experience! They were able to receive a reading from both you and John and they giggled at how accurate the messages were, considering they received a message about a knee problem and shortly after, Kathy, the one owner, had knee problems that she hadn't had prior to the event. Your work is inspiring and it's wonderful to hear of your successes and adventures!
Blessings,
Debbie
Hey, Lisa!
It's amazing! Life! It always suprises.
It's so true we force things to happen too much and I believe too it's our ego who wants to come out. In my studies I often want to do something just the way I think it should be done in my opinion. I have a clear plan. I would like to be sure what I'm going to do. I'm talking about music now.
I force myself to do things because I think they are right things to do. Very often I'm so wrong. I can't be so sure because you'll never know what's going to happen in life. I can't be so prepared all the time.
I try very hard and it's never enough. I practise a lot but I will be sad if I can't do the things that I planned. Music is best when you let it go and flow. Of course I have to learn notes, have them in my head and fingers or remember words but when I cope with them it's time to fly! I always have to do some kind of 'give up'.
Guess what? Then it's beautiful and full of life! Everything is filled with light and I'm very happy! But if I try to force it to happen - it's hopeless. I have to let everything come to me and receive them just the way they are.
Thank you, Lisa, for inspireing me again! I'm only sad because I couldn't come to see you in Norway now. Hope you're coming to Finland or somewhere near again!
Best whishes to you! Joy!
Dear Lisa!
Thank you for being you!! =)
I was i Oslo tonight on your show. I have breastcancer and i'm being treated for it for the rest of my life. Thanks to you I'm not so scared to die when that day comes. I hope it's a long time before that will happend. I am a mother to three children and my youngest is only 10 years old. She need her mum for many years still.
I like to think that death isn't the end, but it's a start on something new.
Thanks for tonight. Remember to take care of your self.
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