All you need is love!
Tuesday, April 6, 2010 at 01:44AM Ahola
Well here I am in Hawaii... and what a wonderful place it is to be. I sit here, listening to the ocean which is crashing against the rocks in the distance, in a comfortable bed with my little (big) boy who turns 10 very soon... oblivious that we have just had a whole conversation, and he sat up, blew his nose and even put the tissue in the bin, before grabbing my leg and closing his eyes.
There have been so many preparations for this trip, Jane and Isaac are over along with other friends Rob and Finley from the UK and we have had such a great time in LA, catching up and now they are with me in Hawaii. I'm not sure who is looking after who... are the kids looking after the adults or vise verse... maybe it's safer to say that there are 6 kids in the house... haha
It's times like these that make me grateful for what I have in my life, not what I haven't got. Money can't buy you everything, and on the way over from LA to Honolulu today, I watched 'Up in the Air' with George Clooney. And that film made me realize that actually that is my life... constantly on a plane, or in a meeting, or somewhere. Of course it's not to the extent of that film, but I sat there, saying... 'I know that hotel', 'I know that airport' it was sad. Of course it's a lonely life on the road, but now things have been changed and I am touring in a different way it's easier.
I am so grateful for the friends that I have, the support that I get, especially my little, big boy. I may not be home all the time or have someone to come home too other than Charlie but I have what I need. I have the love of Charlie and my friends and family... and if I find someone on the way then that is a bonus.
Life is about quality not quantity... Spending sometime with Charlie is the ultimate. We sat on the flight today chatting, about life, and what happens and how we all feel different things. Just those 5 hours on a flight were really important for me as we made it matter. Sunday morning at his karate grading... it mattered... it matters all the time, but these are the moments that are important, even now, as he hugs my leg and is crushing it (I am sure it's going to be dead soon) is a quality moment.
We have to make these moments be important, and instead of saying what we want, go out and act upon it. Tell people how you feel, make it happen and never be afraid, because it may just be what they need to hear.
Lots of love
Lisa xx
PS. For those of you who have supported a dear friend and helped raise funds to send her to Texas for treatment for her cancer, she has written a note of thanks on her site. To read this, please click here
xxx
Reader Comments (21)
Love quality time.....Loads of love and light also, for your friend receiving treatment..her story was truly heartfelt..I hope she is healed, and continues a wonderful life with her son..XXX
What a lovely post Lisa, I can picture you with charlie, it's so sweet ;-)
Well, I understand what you mean, I am by myself, no man in my life and sometimes people around me focus on this so much and I don't know how to say that I already feel "rich" to have so many great friends and I live beautiful things and I share beautiful moments with people dear to my heart and that is enough. Of course, if someone comes along that would be great too but we should all enjoy what we have now and know that it's supposed to be that way for the moment ;-))
I send much love to you and your loved ones,
Lise
Hi Lisa..consistently I'm surprised about your blogs..when I have a special question in my mind and I need an answer,your blogs give me the answer I need to know...that's really weird!!!
But would I tell this special someone who is in my head how I feel for...Oh really..That won't solve my case!
But thank you Lisa I'm always inspired by your blogs...
Much love and a million hugs your way!
Sina M.
Good morning beautiful soul. I resonate with your post. My life has been an eye opener this year and has made me appreciate everything, especially the love and support.
People are lucky to have you in their life. Have a great day and vacation chickie.
Lots of love to you and Charlie
Lynn
The purest of LOVE...UNCONDITIONAL! is what you are receiving from your little big boy and that must be so satisfying Lisa.
I feel the love in your blog,it is just beautiful.
Love Julie xx
...and the love from Charlie will stay like that forever...my boys are 34years old and 24 years old - one lives in the UK one here in Florida with me...but, they are the most loving and caring sons I could wish for. I was a single parent for a long time and it was difficult holding down a full time job and being Mum and Dad to two boys - but in the end, after all the worrying and hard work, life sorts itself out, I started making right choices - now they have pleasure in looking after me sometimes....they enjoy it and so do I....like I told my eldest son the other day, no matter what age your kids are - they are still your babies....you still want to protect them - it's a 'Mum' thing....
Bonjour Lisa!
Since i've met you on this site..that's what i've become..more and more..
To be able to catch those precious moments with our loved ones..
...and also to express my feelings when it comes from the Heart.
I'm a lucky guy to cross your path in this LifeTime...X0X...;0)
Dear Lisa,
you are so right about the little moments mattering, the way you speak of your little big boy is so beautiful. Its a true blessing when we have those moments with the ones we love and hold dear to our hearts. This has warmed my heart today, and I will make sure I make the moments with my loved ones count today and always!
I also wanted to say that I read Jaqui's letter of thanks and I want you to know that I am holding her and her family in my prayers.
Lots of love to you dear Lisa,
Leslie
Lisa,
So glad you all made it safe and sound to Hawaii... and how awesome to have Charlie and your friends there with you. It makes your travels and touring more fun and less lonely when you have loved ones to share it with !!! I am truly happy that you are getting to experience all that you are and that you remain as grounded as you are and share your experiences with us all. Your right, money doesnt buy someone the things that truly matter in life.... It's the love of family and friends that make the heart happy. And you definately have that where ever you go !!!!
How awesome to be able to fall asleep to the sound of the ocean in the distance..... I honestly cant think of a person more worthy and more deserving to have these wonderful experiences then you !!!! You give so much to others, and though it is still work related that brings you to the places you go, you manage to make the most of it !!! I was looking at pics of Hawaii..... and the sunsets are breathe taking... I cant imagine what they could look like in person. Of course, I know the beaches there are awesome .....bet the stargazing is as well !!!! Breathe it all in girl..... I hope you make the most of this experience and bring back cherished memories to look back on !!!
Lots of hugs to you and Charlie and to your friends as well....
Atmos
Speaking of star-gazing, I'm not sure where you are in Hawaii, or what your schedule allows, but if given the chance go out at night (away from any light) and look up. I have never seen the stars the way I did when I was in Hawaii. I will never forget the profound feelings of being so small, and so connected, and so blessed. I'm lucky, I've traveled all over and done many things and looking at the stars that one night, well, the only thing better in my life was having my children.
And take Charlie - I promise he'll give you insight and perspective you'll never get anywhere else.
Malama Pono and blessed travels
:) Amy
Hi my love, Your blog made me smile deep down. I cou;d also feel the love that you
are feeling, not only for Charlie but for your friends also. I am thrilled that you are having a great time in Hawaii!! LOL!!! I read the blog from the woman from the UK. I am sorry
to hear that she can't take the chemo. I do hope that she will be alright and can live a
productive life with ther son. She is in my thoughts and prayers always.
My love to you and Charlie, yes, he is gettng to be a big boy esp. since hr
will be 10 in a few weeks.
of May.
Do enjoy the rest of your time over in Hawaii my dear and I will see you on the
13th of May.
Love you lots,
Mary
Aloha Lisa!
I'm a BIG FAN of your show & have tickets to see you on Saturday! Can't wait!
I'm so Happy that you are here in the islands, enjoy yourself & say hello to Monkie for me!! :O)
See you on Saturday!! :O)
Truly,
Naomi
Hi Lisa,
I always read your blogs, but this one really made me smile!
I have some time off work this week and have been trying to get a balance between spending quality time with my 2 children and sorting out the house (toys everywhere!).
Today I just had to take them to the park and escape all the household jobs that actually don't matter.
As I was walking along I couldn't help but feel happy. There were people everywhere enjoying the beautiful day and my little man came out with some sweet, funny things (as kids do!).
It's so lovely to read about you and your Charlie and how even the smallest things he does means so much. It really makes you realise that it's those special moments that are important.
I work evenings, but this week I've been able to sit and read bedtime stories and had time to listen to my children talk about their favourite bits and it's been wonderful. We all need to cherish those fantastic moments whatever they may be!
Lots of love to you x
Hi Lisa and Charlie,
I am so pleased to hear that the two of you are spending quality time together again. As I keep saying, nothing can beat those precious moments shared with children. There is no time like the present to embrace those moments because, before you know it, they are all grown up and doing their own thing, and I firmly believe, that the more quality time, hugs and cuddles you give them, the more complete they are as adults.
It is so special for me when I witness my eldest grandson, Stephen, who is 13 this year, still coming to my daughter, Donna and myself, and giving us big hugs or coming to lie next to me on the couch and putting his arm around me. The bond I have with him is one of my most special blessings. We were even born in the same hospital in Cape Town, which blows my mind when I think of it, especially considering how often we moved around and have lived all over the countryside and even in England. That is not to say that I don't adore all three of my grandchildren... I was just singling him out because he is almost a teenager and he is a boy.
I feel so gratified when I realise that my three grandchildren have had an abundance of love and quality time, from parents and grandparents, but especially from myself and Donna. She thinks nothing of her house being in a mess while she takes the children to the beach and ensures they have a good time. In fact, she is the biggest child of all of them sometimes, which I have come to realise as I have gotten older, is the most important legacy you can give to a child. There are so many of us with chips on our shoulders, and if we can do everything in our power to ensure our future generations don't have the same hang-ups, this is the best legacy you can leave behind.
I went to Jacqui's website, and am so sorry to hear that she needs to be stronger to have chemo. It must be so hard for her especially since she has her son to think of. I hope and pray that things turn around for her and that a miracle happens in her life. My heart goes out to her and her family.
Lisa, have an awesome time with Charlie and your friends. You are indeed very blessed to have the wonderful friends and family that you do have.
Hugs,
Jeanette
Goodness me, another long post from me.... sorry!!
Jeanette
I use the Google translator because I speak only French
What a nice surprise I just discovered the site of the FRENCH ...
Finally, Your arrival in Quebec has given us a little bit of French on the site. THANK YOU.
I had already wrote some time to suggest that the site is compatible with a translator in line when you enter the members area and I had never had either on, or answers ...
At least is a start, I still hope that the site is, one day also available in French, because there is software for that ...
It's my pleasure to read the testimonies of people who have had the chance to witness the spectacle of Lisa ...
Lisa you are a person who inspires me, your light and Thanks for all the good you bring on your way ...
Melissa
KISSES XXX
J'utilise le traducteur de Google car je parle seulement français
Quel belle surprise je viens de découvrir du FRANÇAIS sur le site...
Finalement, Ta venue au Québec nous a valu un petit coin de français sur le site .MERCI.
Moi j'avais déjà écris quelques fois pour suggérer que le site soit compatible avec un traducteur en ligne quand on entre dans le coin des membres et je n'avais jamais eu ni de suite , ni de réponses...
Au moins, C'est un début, j'espère toujours que le site soit , un jour aussi disponible en français, car il y a des logiciels pour ça...
Ça ma plaisir de lire les témoignages des gens qui ont eu la chance d'assister au spectacle de Lisa...
Lisa tu es une personne qui m'inspire, de ta lumière et Merci pour tout le bien que tu apportes sur ta route...
Mélissa
BISOUS XXX
Dear LIsa,
More & more I am starting to get back to my "old self" too. I love that you are feeling happier these days! Enjoy your time in Hawaii -- it is a magical place indeed. I want to sincerely apologize for not being able to accept the winning tix for Maui. At the time I entered, I had every intention of being there. But as time went on, the finances didnt allow that luxury. And Im so, so sorry -- I did let your staff know 1 month ahead of time so possibly someone else could benefit! Maui is one of my most favorite places on earth -- you will take home some beautiful memories with Charlie & probably continue to hear the island calling your names, long after you've left! How FUN to be there with people you hold so dear!
Lisa, I just love ya to pieces -- and wish you all of the happiness you so desire. Thanks always -- for you. Blessings & ALOHA~~
Aloha Lisa!!!
Oh it sounds so perfect beach and the sound of ocean waves. I am so happy that you are finding some special time to spend with Charlie and your friends while enjoying Hawaii. You certainly deserve and need this time as others have already said it better than me. Creating those magical moments is what really matters in life and I am so glad that you are doing just that... and making the best of everything. You only deserve the best dear one and all will fall in place when it is supposed to. So I am sending you lots hugs for an amazing trip. DS
Lisa, many of us logged on to this morning's radio show, totaling forgetting you mentioned a repeat last week! We missed you and a couple people felt you might log on from where you were. I just can't imagine you would choose a Hawaiian beach and the sound of waves crashing against rocks and snuggling with Charlie over chatting with likes of us!! LOL
Glad you are having such a great time and getting a chance to really connect with Charlie. btw...last week in chat you said you would tell Caroline the brownies are coming...and they are. The tricky thing is that they are a little perishable and it is difficult to get them there for Monday mail pick up (and Caroline said it can sometimes be Tuesday or even Wednesday)... will try to mail them when they are as fresh as possible and hope they maintain so for 2,000 miles! Enjoy your day! I lived in Aiea (near Pearl Harbor) for years and wish I were back there today! I envy you!
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xoxoxo
Dear Lisa,
We just left your Honolulu show this evening, and wanted to say we really enjoyed it quite a bit. However, I'm feeling I might have let myself down by not getting your attention on your last reading of the evening. I had a several things in common with some of the things you were relaying. My Father was in a car accident, and died intantly. My good friend was in the Military who also died of a brain illness as well. My Grandfather was also from Scottland, where he met my Grandmother during World War II. There were just too many things in common and I feel like I might have missed a chance to make a connection. I'd like to know if there is anyway to possibly do a reading, or you have some advice. Thank you so very much.