Moments that stay with you forever!
Monday, March 29, 2010 at 02:24PM Wow. Doesn't time fly when you are on the road. It's been crazy and hectic but oh so much fun! I have to say that this has got to be one of the best tours that I have had. Not for my readings because I have always been focused and ensure that I deliver what messages I have to the best of my ability. But this was about connecting as a team and having a good time.
One of the things that my grand father taught me, was that you actually spend a lot of time in two places. One in bed and so it's important to have a good mattress so that you are supported and the other is you spend a lot of time at work and so whatever you do, you do it to the best of your ability and you have fun. Both of them I have always done. However you can't always guarantee a good mattress on the road.
Steve, Ryan and I really connected and last tour I was so engrossed in my book that they started to call it the 'Where's Lisa' tour. As I walked on the bus, sat down chatted briefly about the show and the day and then I went off to my room and then I was never to be seen again until the following day at the sound check and the same would happen that night.
However this tour was actually so much different. I have always had a great relationship with those I tour with and it's important to surround yourself with people who you respect and know can represent you, because although you see me on stage there are so many others behind the scenes to make the show happen. Ryan, Steve and I bonded and I will miss them while I am not touring.
We had our own little party of the bus, with music, dancing, laughter and fun until 4am when we would arrive at the next hotel and the next town. I have some incriminating photos and videos of the boys and I am sure that they have some of me. But it just goes to show how you also have to enjoy yourself when you work. Especially when you are on the road in the way that we are.
The fun has also included people who came to the shows, I met up with some after the last show in Wausau and there i was with every intention of having one drink and heading to bed... Well I did only have one drink (as believe it or not I don't need alcohol to have a good time) however it turned out to be another night of laughter and memories that were created.
Where ever we go we have to make the most of the situation, you have to look at it from a positive point of view, because you never know who you will meet, if that situation will change your life or if you are going to be offered the opportunity that you have waited for. It's about staying present and in the moment also. We have a lifetime of memories yet there are moments that you never forget.
I always have had a moment that happened when I was 22 and it was one of the best nights of my life, and it involved friends and a lot of laughter... just being free and able to be who you want to be. I have often said that I am reverting back to when I am 22... however Friday night was one of those moments I will never forget, it will be held in my memory and when I am 60 I will say, I am reverting back to the age of 36 with that night in my mind.
It's about embracing the time that you have had. Creating a memory, but most of all creating a special moment that will be embedded in your soul forever.
With much love
Lisa xx
Reader Comments (34)
l am glad that you are having a blast. Music,laughter and living in the moment are the best way to be. If we could all connect to our inner child and laugh at ourselves more often the world would be a much nicer place. Hugs Racca xoxoxox
Thats the best post I have ever read from you. :) Fantastic.. moments like that I think is worth everything. xx
The moment that will stay with me forever is the moment when our family friends received the very first reading at the University Park, IL show you just did. It was the first show I seen of yours and I was able to witness someone I personally know come through to his mom, dad, and brother. I will never forget that amazing experience. Thank you Lisa! :)
Is there any help out there for a person who is extra sensitive to the feelings / emotions of others? I don't know if it's a spiritual thing or if I'm just crazy but I struggle all the time with other peoples emotions. I was hoping I could learn how to deal with it and I've no idea where to go or who to ask. Thanks.
Hi Lisa
Road Trips are so much fun, when you are with people you love and care for. This makes me think back to my Rodeo Days, as a Bull Rider, we would drive all night long to get to the next Rodeo,
We would get a Motel Room for 2 and then we would pack it full of Cowboys for the night, sleeping bags wall to wall. Life is an Party.
Rev Dwayne
Hi Lisa...
Thank you for that "uplifting" post.... I wanted to see you in University Park, Illinois but I was unable to come that night...I hope you can come back to Illinois in the future..
I'm sure you have a lot of supporters here.
I do look forward to reading your new book..... can you tell us when that will be coming out? I would love to purchase it..
I have a friend that died in January of 2010. .. I wish to receive confirmation from him.
I hope that you will continue to post Messages from Beyond... his name was Shawn, in case you get anything, please be sure to post it.
Thanks again.
Mary P
Lisa, It sounds like you are making the most of life and that's what it is all about!
Good on you Lisa you deserve happiness!
Love Julie xx
Awe Lisa, I'm so happy your tour ended on a good note, you & your team are the greatest and I'm happy you found the time to bond..I hope you & Charlie have a great time on tour together too....One of my best moments is our reading with you & my daughter..I can never thank you enough..I love you bunches...Seeing some of those down time pictures would be pretty cool, hint, hint :) Big hugs..........mauder
You totally have to post some of those pictures online!!! Enjoy Hawaii! Xxx
Hi Lisa,
I am so glad you had a blast on this tour and found the time to bond with Steve and Ryan. Many things in life come and go, but no-one can ever take away our memories. They are precious and priceless. Over the years I have had many friends who have forfeited a trip overseas or a new experience for the price of a swimming pool or an extension to their home or whatever. For me, the trip overseas has always won hands down. The travelling experiences I have had will always be precious memories for me to look back on with fondness and even nostalgia. I sometimes really miss some of the beautiful places Colin, Donna and I have been to and would love to recapture them. I am so grateful and feel very blessed to be able to take myself back in time and remember what awesome and special times we had travelling all over England and Europe. If I look back on favourite times with my dearest friends, I think about the Friday nights we got together and played guitar and sang. Some nights our singing was awful and other nights it all came together beautifully but whether awful or great, the fun and laughter we shared was so special, so again, what priceless memories to look back on. Other memories I am sure to look back on with fondness when I am older, is being there to share the experiences of my precious grandchildren growing up.
Writing this makes me realise what a wonderful life I have had and how very blessed I have been to live the life that I have lived. Thank you for reminding me.
I must admit, for a moment back there, when I was reading the part of your blog where you mentioned your grandfather saying how important work and a mattress was, I thought you were going to divulge an experience you had on your mattress... LOL. I guess I am being over keen for you to meet someone new and exciting in your life... sorry, don't mean to put my foot in it, just having a chuckle.
Hugs to you and Charlie (I am sure he is happy to have mommy home again),
Jeanette
By the way, I agree with Lyndell... be a sport and post some of those pics for us to share with you... go on... please!!
Jeanette
hi! lisa sometime angel talk to me yesterday i have one angel my coat is falling down and i have hear one voice says me it is me after says his name and i have not undersand all word but it is an angel it green and pink.... good memorie noemie
Lisa, it is so good to read this. I'm really glad that you had fun and that your team and yourself created magic and laughter.
We should all do the same and enjoy the moment, indeed a positive experience can come out of an ordinary one sometimes...thta's the magic of life !
Have fun and take care, gros bisous,
Lise
‘’Where’s Lisa’’ Tour….that’s a good one! LOL!!!
Great to see you in a good humour and ..have fun with your loved ones on the West Coast!
XoX
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So glad your enjoying life! u deserve it! always helping others! u need to help yourself too! when I met u, wished we were friends! know, u have many friends, love EV!
Hi Lisa,
As I read these posts, how I wish you would come to South Africa, it would be lovely see you in action without having to scout the DSTV channels to see when one of your programmes will be running. How I envy all the American's they seem to have it all!. I look forward to your next book.
Rainbow blessings to you family and extended family!
Hi Lisa,
You sound happier than you have for a long time. When we go through difficult emotional times, we do come out the other end stronger and more in tune with ourselves. It's very therapeutic!
Happiness is spending time with friends,
Enjoying their company
And having full trust in them.
Happiness is not having to talk,
Being content to listen -
To enjoy their ambiance.
Happiness is enjoying laughter,
Smiling from deep down inside –
Being content with ourselves.
True happiness is being honest,
Being able to relax
And sleep peacefully at night.
All the best!
Susanna
Susanna, another beautifully worded poem... happiness is just what you say it is. Thank you for reminding us.
Cosmicwhisper... yay!! Another South African has joined the ranks. A warm welcome to you. The more South African fans Lisa has, the more chance there is that she will visit us here. I see you are from Johannesburg. I live in Plettenberg Bay, and Ina, another member that joined a few years ago already, lives in Cape Town. So pleased to have another SA fan on board.
Hugs,
Jeanette
Hi, Wausau was AWESOME Lisa!!!!! The laughter one gets from nights like thats is so healthy for one's soul and that is why I am sooooo grateful and thankful for my friends and those I meet that can enjoy life and people together like we do, would be lost without them. Ryan and Steve seemed totally wonderful and I could tell they will miss you very much also. You are so blessed but so are all those that have the opportunity to get to know you and see you on stage. I agree that in your blog you sound happier than you have in a while and what a burst of sunshine that is!! Good for you! Keep on going girlfriend, you have so much to offer to so many people!
Love & Hugs! Judi from WI :)
woooooooooohooooooooo!! I'm turning 60...36 sounds about right! Ha! Enjoy yourself Lisa...you are as free as you let your inner thoughts be.
You are Loved!!
Andrea
wow.. u have reason to be very happy jeanette!! positive thinking helps to manifest positive outcome!
ps. u read my post @last blog page? I was overdue!
in love and light
Hi Lisa! I just wanted to let you know that me, my mom and 2 sisters were in Wausau with you, having as much fun or more. Thanks for the Cosmos, and especially the memories. We will NEVER forget that night. My mom and I were always huge fans of yours, and now my sisters are too. I still can't believe we were so fortunate to spend so much time with you and your crew. Please say hello to Ryan and Steve for us! We will be looking for further opportunities to see you work, and hope you continue to do your thing as long as you are able. Thank you again for making it a trip to remember for us. We love you! Renae (Jan, Mandy & Renee too!)
Good Morning from all the way from Australia!!
Yes, everythings is a form of energy, therefore time is now. No matter how 'old' or 'young' you are, these numbers of human years does not mean anything much to me. My human age is 38 but I feel like I'm still about 33! It doesn't matter, the main thing is keeping your energy vibrant. People who is like minded, will respond or turn to you.
Happy travelling!
Hi Lisa,
I was thirilled to see your show in Wausau on Friday evening.
I was one of the disappointed ones that didn't get a reading.I was disappointd for myself (I was hoping for validation from someone I've loved for years that passed from cancer, and I was hoping to hear from my beloved Dad and other family members; also wondering about the spirits that inhabit or visit my apartment, if it's either Dad or Grandmother because I felt "protected" once during a power outage when everything was pitch black, like an arm around me.)
But what I regretted most was that my friend, one of the kicking and screaming ones you mentioned, didn't hear from her daughter who she lost almost 2 years ago to the day of the show. She'll never "get over it" no one does, but she's torturing herself with thoughts and emotions she can't let go of. It was very sudden, before I even knew her, but I feel for her and wonder if there's anything you can do remotely or that you can tell me that would help her. I wouldn't tell her it came from you, she's not at all receptive. I don't know how I got her to go with me, except I think she was hoping for something too, even though she wouldn't admit it to herself.
I enjoyed every minute of the show and hope I can attend another one sometime. You know now how much fun we can be in Wisconsin. Thank you for a fantastic evening. I'm fascinated by your work.
Lauralee
Glad to be back catcing up with your posts !!!
Sounds like a fun tour...wish I was there with everyone but I am looking forward as always , to continue to make my own new and great memories - including plans for the future to make more !!! Lolol ... sounds confusing I know but I'm sure you understand haha
I often reminisce about past times and can remember that wonderful 'feeling' , like it was yesterday...it is a great place to 'go ' sometimes...lots of fun, laughter and tears...good ones !!!
Funny enough, we have just recently as a family, re-connected with old friends and neighbours, some we have not seen or spoken to for 30 years....the photos that have been brought out and the way you just slip back into time..ahhhh...truly the best !!!
Bye for now and hope all is well and have a wonderful and special time in Hawaii !!! Wish I was there...but can't wait till some of hope to have a "LIsa member" holiday together, in a few years, to finally meet my dear friends...plans are still in the making !!! hehe
Love and hugz
Sharon xx