New Haven
Monday, November 16, 2009 at 09:33AM New Haven was lovely…. what a place, I loved it. I was so excited to be also to be where one of the famous colleges in the US is… YALE. The energy was so light and fun.
Before the show, I met up with a great friend who is also an inspiration to me, and we chatted and laughed while I was getting ready… we had so much fun, and the fun didn't stop there.
The show was great with some really interesting readings with some very interesting stuff coming out of the readings. We had a lot of fun but there was some serious moments of course.
Within one of the readings certain information came out which clarified personal information that had been happening, and then when I spoke to them afterwards it was getting clearer and clearer. As they say there is always two sides to every story, and that is something that I found as a theme running through my day yesterday.
We always have to think about what people say and then you have to make up your own opinions on whether its the real information or not. You have to trust your instincts and if you are starting to doubt it, then if you can you have to find out the truth, so if that person whose story you haven't gotten is still with us, then you have to see what their take it, as they may just be waiting for you to come to them. Or if they have passed you have to ask them to show you the signs for the real information.
Many times in life we don't get the full story in life and that is where problems start to arise, because they have taken things at face value, and have believed something that isn't real. I am sure many of you who are reading this will know what I mean. Sometimes you have to look beyond that, sometimes you may have to ask the questions that you don't want to ask for find out the truth, whether it hurts you or not… because when that happens you get the 'real' picture then. It's happened to me, it happens to everyone.
If people would just communicate and see the reality there would be a lot less hurt that happens in the world.
Stay happy today and communicate with those around you and know that you will always find the answers that you are searching for within you. Stillness of the mind, meditation and peace can answer so many questions that you have.
Much love and big hugs
Lisa xx
Reader Comments (28)
How true Lisa. Sometimes it takes stepping back so that you can process the information you have. Then, if you have to, ask the tough questions. Be ready too. You may not like the answers. You are seeking the truth.
Be safe and Happy Lisa!
Aloha,
Gail
Wow. This hits home for me today, Lisa.
Thanks for sharing.
Safe travels!
peace....deb t/illinois
Hi Lisa
I was wondering....do spirits ever lie to you or are they always truthful?
Could a message come through for someone on this side, which is a spirit trying to get his/her own back?
Keep doing your important work as you really do change lives.
Don't forget Germany (50,000 British forces stationed here) when doing your next tour.
Sarah
x
Wonderful post...enjoy the journey.
Love,
Andrea
Hi Lisa,
Great to hear things are going so well! Truth and good communication are essenial to most elements of life! It is so easy to be lazy, or somewhat deceptive and not convey feelings, or information accurately, or honestly. That causes bad feelings, isolation, alienation and a complete breakdown of relationships. We have to trust our friends and partners enough to be honest with them, or suffer the possible negative consequenses.
The effort and honesty is worth the time and energy to keep a good friendship and relationship healthy; otherwise....we remain alone. Sounds simple,but it takes a lot of trust and courage to follow through completely and on a regular basis.
Hope everyone has wonderful friends and beautiful relationships!
Hugs and Love,
Cheryl
xxo!
Hi Lisa,
Sometimes it hurts (in both ways) to speak directly to someone even with the best intentions to respect that person.
But the idea is to project the picture as clear as it could be. So no misjudments can be made.
Take care,
Hi Lisa, my wife is a great admirer of your TV. shows as am I. She often has bad days when she thinks of her brother who passed 5 years ago. How can I make her content with the idea that he is very much still with us, she really is so emotional on this issue and wonders if he suffered , etc, as he passed. As I have no way of knowing this, how can I re-assure her? Regards from Scotland, Tom.xx
Thank you again Lisa. I think what you said can be really useful for everyone !
Have a great day !
Lise
HUMMMM-- I was just having this conversation with our sons x girl friend. She asked me why her life sucked so much right now. My response to her was, in short, always ask yourself why and listen to the gut response. Change what needs to be changed and learn the lesson that is set befor you at this time. It might be hard right now but in the end it will be what was best for you.
Lisa you are a smart women
Love
Darlene
So, so true...timely....thanks for a great blog as always Lisa.
Glad you are having a lovely time and hope that you continue to do so !
Hugz xx
Thank you for your post, today. It was really what I needed to hear, giving me validation on a really tough decision that I had to make today. Without honesty between people, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no real relationship. I had to let someone very, very dear go today who could or would not be honest with me. There has been so much doubting myself and my gut instincts along the way, but there have also been signs that I have been shown to help me become aware of the truth. In the end, I chose to trust myself, even though it means that I have been betrayed by another. Sad, but I know I've made the right decision- to live in reality, in truth and honesty, to keep my own sanity and peace of mind. Blessings to you, Lisa.
Thank you for your post, today. It was really what I needed to hear, giving me validation on a really tough decision that I had to make today. Without honesty between people, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no real relationship. I had to let someone very, very dear go today who could or would not be honest with me. There has been so much doubting myself and my gut instincts along the way, but there have also been signs that I have been shown to help me become aware of the truth. In the end, I chose to trust myself, even though it means that I have been betrayed by another. Sad, but I know I've made the right decision- to live in reality, in truth and honesty, to keep my own sanity and peace of mind. Blessings to you, Lisa.
Hi Lisa, I was at the New Haven show and I just loved seeing you in person. Thanks for coming to Connecticut, and please come back soon. I've been lucky enough to see a lot of the "top" psychics, but you blew me away with the amount of information that you gave to each person you read. The best part of the evening is your warm personality-I really had a great time even without getting a reading.
In one of the readings, you mentioned a dog, and for that person to not feel guilty if they had the animal euthanized. It was barely covered, but it is a sore subject for me. I've had to put two of my much loved friends to sleep, and the guilt and shock at the time was overwhelming. What does spirit say about doing this? I know you are busy, but could you cover this sometime in your blog? I would really appreciate it. I don't remember if you mentioned it in your book.
Thanks again for coming to Connecticut...Big hug! Laura
Dear Lisa, does it really matter in the end if there are two sides to a story? Sometimes when a person comes to a healer for help, they are not looking for truth or reality or anything like that. They are looking for comfort. Comfort or closure. Without that comfort or closure, the person is unable to move on. If two sides of a story is called into place, it actually opens up a situation of judgement rather than understanding.
Different people have different personalities and different ways of viewing the world. Some people are softer. They are not looking for reasons, they want to know whether something was a sucide or an accident. Because each story is important. If two people do not get along, it means that they are different and could not agree on things. Why does it matter to know two sides of the story, Lisa? In this world, most people listen to two sides and usually choose one side to side with.
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So much of what you write hits home, Lisa. Indeed, if we would each just meditate more so many confusions would clear up.
I have found so often that mediums go 'awry' when they project their own interpretation on what they have been told. And as I develop my own mediumship I caution myself to just say what I hear and feel ( to paraphrase one of your trademark lines) and only say that. If I start to speculate, it frequently goes in a direction that isn't accurate. So now, if I see a wheel of cheese I ask 'what's this wheel of cheese?' ( Robinette!!!!!!!! you know the cheese!).
And then meditate some more.
Thanks, Lisa, Namaste, Guruji.....
Hello Lisa,
Thank you for another great blog.
Some of the things hit home a little with me.
I listened to your radio show last night and I like it. I'll be listening to it every week.
Dear Lisa,
Actually, I often find that there are three sides to a story, first the one person's, then the other's, and then the truth. We all see things differently depending on what our values are, and life can become very complicated in that respect because there are so many aspects to a story. Just taking the Bible for example, I am amazed how interpretations differ, and how people live their lives according to those interpretations. A profound example, for instance, is the Christian belief that Jesus is the way, the truth and the light, and you can only get to Heaven by going through him. What if the message is meant as Jesus is the way, the truth and the light, and you need to live your life as Jesus did, as an example of goodness and love, rather than going through him exclusively. That would put a completely different stance on a belief system that has carried forward for many years. What I am trying to say is, that words can be interpreted in so many different ways and that, like Loveheart, I believe that we are all different and see things differently, and we all have our own truths and struggles and we should try and respect that difference in all of us. This does not change the fact that we should all have a common goal of striving to be positive in our outlooks and to count our blessings and smile rather than walk around with long faces. As one lady said to John Edward when he asked her the question, what would you say to people who need to go forward in their lives. Her response was quite simply "always blessings, never losses".
As my Doreen Virtue book Guidance By Your Angels teaches, we are all beautiful souls and have God within us. The challenge is to find that beauty within us, to allow it to shine and to love ourselves unconditionally. That way, we heal our hearts, ease the pain and guilt and become better human beings, and that results in us showing our better and true selves to the world. I pray that we all find that strength to bring out the best of ourselves and to show compassion to those who are struggling.
For myself, I thank God that he showed me a way to grow spiritually, and a huge part of my journey and healing has been thanks to discovering Lisa and this wonderful site, along with my Daily Guidance book. Lisa, what drew me to you, more than anything, was that I saw that whatever spirit came through, you did not judge their past lives, but accepted them unconditionally and that there were many spirits who had not lead holier than thou lives, but were there alongside the good folk nonetheless also just trying to learn life's lessons. I have also seen that unconditional love whenever you have given someone a hug and I have loved you for that more than anything else. In that, you have taught me a valuable lesson and I strive to find and see the good in everyone.
I love this new journey that I am on and am excited by new discoveries every day.
Bless you all. May you all find the happiness you deserve.
Jeanette
Thanks, Jeanette. What you say is true.
Hi Lisa,
From my point of view there is no TRUTH...
There is only reality.
In what we call truth, it's a polarized side of it....
And all in that we believe makes the side we choose on..
There is a mechanical way of making a decision based on knowing two sides of a story and it's good to do so. After that you can depolarize the situation you analyse .... and you make your own idea.
That's make you a free person, a free spirit ... free of being in a prison of beliefs.
Friendly yours from the East Coast,
;0)
Oh....
I forgot,
What's REALITY??
It' knowing within yourself without a doubt.
Bye
Hi my love, Again thanks for your enlightened blog. You always seem to hit home. I hope your weekend is going great.
Love you always, Mary
Thanks for another inspiraional blogg....take care.
Was exactly what I needed to read TODAY....amazing. Thank you, Lisa. xoxo
I had the honor of being your first caller on your new Hayhouse radio show and want to THANK YOU for contacting my son and delivering a birthday message for his brother. It is comforting to know that my son's enery is so happy on the otherside. I also enjoy your wisdow and insight that you express with humor and joy. I'm so glad that you now have a show that can be heard (via the internet) around the world! I'm looking forward to seeing you in Tampa on Saturday. Many Blessings to you & your family.
Just read Debbie's post and found out you can be heard on Hayhouse. I will try to find it. I so want to contact my Tony. He died 8 months ago, today is his Birthday. I miss him so much I can't stand the pain. I love him and want him to know. I don't know the purpose of posting here, it doesn't seem that you answer, maybe it is just for a type of support group? I had seen you on tv quite a while ago and thought you were wonderful.