Ask Lisa

What do orbs represent?

Lisa Williams — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 19:44:38 +0000

What are orbs? I noticed several orbs in Christmas pictures taken of my nephew opening his gifts. There was one that stayed on his side or above his head. Is this my father that recently passed? Thanks for your help. Felicia, Michigan.

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Hi there, spirits come through often in photographs in the form of an orb. They are just energy and so when we capture energy it looks like this. So it could very well be your father that is coming through to say hi and to celebrate Christmas with you. I always suggest to people that they zoom in the picture and you may see a face or something… it’s amazing when you see it. But don’t worry if you don’t. If you feel that it’s your father then believe it, because it really is! Hugs, Lisa xx

Will he take my daughter?

Lisa Williams — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 19:37:50 +0000

I’m a single mom but my ex is trying to take my child away from me. I take good care of my daughter who is now four, but he has terrible jealousy issues and I know he wants her to live with him and his girlfriend. We were together seven years and so I know him very well, and I also know he didn’t take care of our daughter when he was with us. His friends have always been more important than his family. Do you have any advice for me as I’m scared and not sure what to do? Vicky.

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Hi Vicky, 'don’t worry' is my first piece of advice. You have to realize that he is trying to do everything that he can to get at you… just because of the way that he is. I am sure that your friends and family have said the same. My instinct here is that you will remain with your daughter and that you do not have anything to worry about but he will try to fight you on this. All you have to do is give love to your daughter and focus on your family.

I would suggest that you try some visualization techniques such as imagining you and your daughter bonded together and never leaving each other… however that may look to you is the right way to visualize it. You will find that it will help you and settle your mind. Good luck with this. Lisa xx

What are my strengths?

Lisa Williams — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 19:29:26 +0000

I am looking to get some guidance in life. I am struggling with my love life, finding my soul mate and getting a good career started. I am working on myself and trying to learn what my style is in the workplace environment. What makes me valuable, my strengths, and what makes me a good team player? (My sister seems to have it down.) Can you please provide insight? I have been struggling for some time now. Thank you so much! Netta.

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Hi Netta, First things first, don’t compare yourself to your sister… we all have our pathways and we all have our lessons, and this is your life.

Something tells me that you have a creative flare that you are either not using or you are hiding away and you need to work with it. Don’t put too much pressure on finding a soul mate, that person will come along when you are ready and when they are ready. You need to listen to your own intuition a little more. So I am going to suggest that you meditate a little, not on where your life is going but on you. You will find the answers within you and you will start to live your life the way it should be. I can promise you that the soul mate is going to be part of your life, but for now concentrate on you. Big hugs, Lisa xx

Lonely and depressed

Lisa Williams — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 17:48:16 +0000

What should I do with my life? I am not happy, but I don't know what I need or want. I feel like I have been struggling and fighting all my life, and I'm really tired. I am trying to meditate almost every day, some of my friends are trying to heal me, and I use pendulums and crystals, and sometimes angel cards. I am 25, and I already feel tired, lonely and depressed. What is my mission for my life? Sometimes I get angry with my grandmother who passed away and I shout at her for failing to protect me. Ida, Norway.

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Hi Ida, firstly please don’t be angry with your grandmother, because it was her time to pass. We have lessons that we have to learn and those lessons are ours and they are not for anyone else, so it’s not your grandmother's fault, however I can tell you that she is watching you from spirit and she is trying to help you. But with that said, you are not helping yourself. You have negative energy around you and it needs to be dispersed. I am going to suggest that you take a break from pendulums, and cleanse all your crystals, and go for walks outside, without a phone and just BE in nature. I am also going to suggest that you sage the home where you live and that will help lift the energy.

Take a daily walk for the next two and look at everything around you and take note of the trees and the nature, look at the birds…everything that is around. Then after that I would like you to start meditating and you will find that everything is going to start to feel better. If you can within that two weeks limit your media contact, such as TV, facebook etc… and any negative friends that you may have, all of these can feed the negativity. I know that this will help you but only if you are determined! Good luck, Lisa xx

Grieving for my wife

Lisa Williams — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 17:38:02 +0000

I recently lost my wife and soulmate, Rosemary. I know that while I go through the grieving process she will not come to me until she is sure I’m OK. I just need to know that she is OK and that I miss her so much but also know that it was her time to go. I was told along time ago by a spiritual healer that I had a special gift and that gift was explained to me as being on this earth to help people through tough times but I am at a loss as to where I go from here. Bill.

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Hi Bill, I am so sorry for your loss, it's hard when you are going through the grieving process and you can’t see the signs that Rosemary is there, but I can guarantee that she is there with you and loves you. She is showing me the flowers that you have had for her and she is happy about them. She wants you to know that she is there for you and that she loves you with all her heart and is telling me that you are a very special man and that she couldn’t have done so many things without you. Let him know that I am ok she says and she is always with you, and she wants you to be happy. She is telling me that you help so many people and you will continue to do that. She is so proud of you. I hope that helps you Bill and watch out for her in your dreams. Much love, Lisa xx

Afraid I'm going to die

Lisa Williams — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 20:10:25 +0000

I have been having a really bad time lately with anxiety about death. I can’t stop thinking that I’m going to die soon, it frightens me so much. I am 27 years old and I had a miscarriage five months ago, I’m so scared I won’t grow old and have a family. I have read your book, ‘Survival of the Soul’, and I 100% believe. My grandfather was taken from me suddenly and I’m afraid that’s going to be me soon, either awake or in my sleep. Please could you help me with some guidance? I have enclosed a picture of myself if that helps. Katie, England.

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I’m really sorry that you feel this way and you are not alone, when we have had a sudden passing and it’s affected you, then of course you wonder if it could happen to you, and then with the miscarriage your emotions are all over the place. Let me reassure you, you have read my book which will hopefully help you understand the miscarriage, but I don’t see you passing young, and I do see that there are going to be children around you. So please breathe and do some meditation, that will really help you. Good luck. Hugs, Lisa xx

Feeling others' pain

Lisa Williams — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 20:08:50 +0000

I'm wondering if it’s possible to take on other people’s pain, even unintentionally? Are spiritually sensitive people in general feeling more pain than others? Or is it just my own psychological problems that are causing strange feelings? I have lost some of my closest family members in past few years. Before and after some one has passed, I have strange feelings, pains that are linked to the cause of death. I'm often, especially at night time, having strange feelings. Should I do something about this? Minna, Finland.

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Yes this is very common, especially if you are sensitive. What I suggest that you do is a form of protection, and meditation. You need to get in a space where you are alone and no one is around you and imagine that you are surrounded with pure white light and that you are fully protected. You may wish to shower before you do this so that you are cleansed. What I then suggest you do is repeat showering your self with white light several times a day, especially when you are around people who may be draining your energy or at night when you experience this. Good luck. With love, Lisa xx

Are we soulmates?

Lisa Williams — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 20:07:42 +0000

I feel a very strong attachment to someone from my childhood, and I don't think it's just on my side. We both married other people and had children, but I've never been able to shake or explain this strong attachment. I feel like this bond will bring us together again eventually, but will it be in this lifetime or the next? Jill, Virginia.

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This can happen and is actually very normal. It’s because we have had a very strong and significant past life together. And it certainly sounds like this is the case with you. What we have to remember is that even though you have this bond with someone in a past life, you don’t have to repeat the life again. Often when people have this pull to each other and they get together in a relationship it’s not what you expect because you realize that you are doing the same life again and that you have done it and it needs to be put to rest. However, I do know that in some cases it works incredibly also. For you personally I feel that there is a bond and that you will come together but not yet, and it’s not going to be for a long time but when you do, you will be fulfilled and happy. I wish you happiness in your journey. Lisa xx

Could this be a warning?

Lisa Williams — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 21:08:23 +0000

I gave birth 16 months ago and I had a lot of postnatal issues, physical and emotional pain. During this period, my mother passed away and the relationship with my brother and sister broke up. For my parents-in-law, I was the daughter they never had, but they treated me very unfairly during this time and the relationship is almost broken. So, I lost a lot. For me, all seems the end of an era for me. With all of this going on, I did not enjoy my baby 100%. I love him a lot and I never blamed him for anything but I did not enjoy motherhood. A couple of months ago I started to see the light at the end of the tunnel, I was feeling better and I was looking for baby girl names in the computer (my current baby is a boy), exactly at that moment a bird crashed against the window and died. I got scared and I guessed that the bird offered his life to warn me against having other baby. So, was this bird a warning? With love, Angela, Perth.

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Hi Angela, firstly, stop blaming yourself for all the issues that have gone on. What you have to realize is that when there is a lot of change, we change and we cope and people don’t like it when there is change… so stop feeling like this. It’s not your fault. Endings of eras happen and I feel like your mother is telling me this, and actually she is being quite firm with you, so I apologize if I sound harsh. She wants you to know that you are loved very much and you shouldn’t read anything into the bird… it was nothing at all. She is telling me that you are a great person and a wonderful mother and that you now need to focus on what's ahead of you. Put all of this behind you and don’t worry about your brother and sister, they are going to come round. She is telling you to talk to her and she will guide you the best way. She loves you very much and tells you to be strong! Hang in there, everything is going to be okay and you will find that things happen for a reason! With love, Lisa xx

Message from Sonja?

Lisa Williams — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 21:06:29 +0000

My best friend's daughter was killed recently in a tragic car accident - she was just 14. My best friend was in India at the time. She is suffering so much and I wish I could help her. I saw your show on the TV and you were so wonderful in helping people. I hoped you could help me? Her daughter's name was Sonja Yvonne Hippele (born 10th Dec 1996). We just want to know what happened, if she is ok and if she has anything to say to my best friend Sarita? Please Lisa, if you can help us we would be eternally grateful. My friend just needs some answers. Thank you. Nicole, Sydney.

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Hi Nicole, and thank you for reaching out on behalf of your friend. Firstly, I want to say that Sonja is a very fun loving and crazy (in the best possible way) spirit and she is telling me that she hasn’t changed. She also wants her mom and her family not to feel guilty and that she is fine and happy and she is not alone, she is with a friend who also passed. I am not sure if this friend passed at the same time as her or not, but both are okay and well and joking and laughing and just being fun! She is telling me that she is celebrated and loved and that the website that has been done for her - I’m not sure if it’s a Facebook page but she tells me it’s boring and needs livening up!! Haha. She passed suddenly and it didn’t hurt, in fact she said, I didn’t feel a thing - it was weird because it all happened so quickly I didn’t have time to panic. She loves you all and tells you she will be under the Christmas tree! With love Lisa xx