What do orbs represent?

What are orbs? I noticed several orbs in Christmas pictures taken of my nephew opening his gifts. There was one that stayed on his side or above his head. Is this my father that recently passed? Thanks for your help. Felicia, Michigan.

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Hi there, spirits come through often in photographs in the form of an orb. They are just energy and so when we capture energy it looks like this. So it could very well be your father that is coming through to say hi and to celebrate Christmas with you. I always suggest to people that they zoom in the picture and you may see a face or something… it’s amazing when you see it. But don’t worry if you don’t. If you feel that it’s your father then believe it, because it really is! Hugs, Lisa xx

Will he take my daughter?

I’m a single mom but my ex is trying to take my child away from me. I take good care of my daughter who is now four, but he has terrible jealousy issues and I know he wants her to live with him and his girlfriend. We were together seven years and so I know him very well, and I also know he didn’t take care of our daughter when he was with us. His friends have always been more important than his family. Do you have any advice for me as I’m scared and not sure what to do? Vicky.

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Hi Vicky, 'don’t worry' is my first piece of advice. You have to realize that he is trying to do everything that he can to get at you… just because of the way that he is. I am sure that your friends and family have said the same. My instinct here is that you will remain with your daughter and that you do not have anything to worry about but he will try to fight you on this. All you have to do is give love to your daughter and focus on your family. 

I would suggest that you try some visualization techniques such as imagining you and your daughter bonded together and never leaving each other… however that may look to you is the right way to visualize it. You will find that it will help you and settle your mind. Good luck with this. Lisa xx

What are my strengths?

I am looking to get some guidance in life. I am struggling with my love life, finding my soul mate and getting a good career started. I am working on myself and trying to learn what my style is in the workplace environment. What makes me valuable, my strengths, and what makes me a good team player? (My sister seems to have it down.) Can you please provide insight? I have been struggling for some time now. Thank you so much! Netta.

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Hi Netta, First things first, don’t compare yourself to your sister… we all have our pathways and we all have our lessons, and this is your life.

Something tells me that you have a creative flare that you are either not using or you are hiding away and you need to work with it. Don’t put too much pressure on finding a soul mate, that person will come along when you are ready and when they are ready. You need to listen to your own intuition a little more. So I am going to suggest that you meditate a little, not on where your life is going but on you. You will find the answers within you and you will start to live your life the way it should be. I can promise you that the soul mate is going to be part of your life, but for now concentrate on you. Big hugs, Lisa xx

Lonely and depressed

What should I do with my life? I am not happy, but I don't know what I need or want. I feel like I have been struggling and fighting all my life, and I'm really tired. I am trying to meditate almost every day, some of my friends are trying to heal me, and I use pendulums and crystals, and sometimes angel cards. I am 25, and I already feel tired, lonely and depressed. What is my mission for my life? Sometimes I get angry with my grandmother who passed away and I shout at her for failing to protect me. Ida, Norway.

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Hi Ida, firstly please don’t be angry with your grandmother, because it was her time to pass. We have lessons that we have to learn and those lessons are ours and they are not for anyone else, so it’s not your grandmother's fault, however I can tell you that she is watching you from spirit and she is trying to help you. But with that said, you are not helping yourself. You have negative energy around you and it needs to be dispersed. I am going to suggest that you take a break from pendulums, and cleanse all your crystals, and go for walks outside, without a phone and just BE in nature. I am also going to suggest that you sage the home where you live and that will help lift the energy. 

Take a daily walk for the next two and look at everything around you and take note of the trees and the nature, look at the birds…everything that is around. Then after that I would like you to start meditating and you will find that everything is going to start to feel better. If you can within that two weeks limit your media contact, such as TV, facebook etc… and any negative friends that you may have, all of these can feed the negativity. I know that this will help you but only if you are determined! Good luck, Lisa xx