As we go through life we start to learn lessons that we have to learn and we also mould ourselves to people, friends, family, partners in life. This is something that we naturally do, and I was only talking about this today with a friend of mine. It's interesting because sometimes we notice that we have done it, and it could be because someone pointed it out, or that something sparked off some thoughts that way, and it could even be this post that has gotten you thinking. 

The one thing you can guarantee about some of these blogs is that it pushes buttons within you and makes you think... and that is what I love about it. 

So I was thinking about how we conform to society because of what we have been bought up to believe or we have been told to act in a certain way by those who have influenced us. But as we get older it's important to be open to follow our own thoughts and feelings and create these opinions our self. Because it's part of our identity. 

We can of course become wrapped up in the emotion of life and that is great and still be influenced but we still need to be us... and with that we still need to follow our dreams, and our desires. This is so important for feeling fulfilled. I see so many people who have put their life on hold because of a situation or they don't follow their dream because a partner in their life doesn't approve. Now of course I understand that there are times its hard to stay true to yourself. However there are ways of keeping that dream alive within you. For instance, if you are an artist and you always dreamed of becoming an artist and having your work in a gallery, do not give up on your gift, don't keep it hidden, it's part of you. Even if you just doodle on a piece of paper or get a book where you can find quiet time to draw... you are still keeping that passion alive. 

We all have dreams and aspirations. I love singing. I'm not going to be a singer out there in the world, but there is no harm for me to sit at the piano and play and sing until my heart is content... it's keeping the passion within you. 

What you have to understand is that when someone falls in love with us, they fall in love with who we are, and everything about us, but the thing is we change and sometimes we lose our identity... but what you have to realize is that we have to stay ourselves and stay the person that they fell in love with. Yes we all change but the underlying factor is we are who we are on a soul level... and that is what we have to stay true too, Ourselves on a soul level! So follow your dreams, keep them alive, they are the passion that drives us, and most of all believe in yourself!

Big hugs and love

Lisa xx

Sometimes when you want things to happen you want it NOW however we all have to wait until the time is right. We all made this plan before we came to the earthplane and it's hard to accept that WE made the decision for many things in our life, and we often ask WHY? And it's true but there is a lesson to be learnt it all of this. 

Sometimes I can be the most impatient person ever and I want it yesterday but then there are times that I know things are worth waiting for, and you know this lesson has started to pay off. It's not easy to sit and wait and watch things happen but there is a reason. 

I know for me I had to write a book, reconnect with old friends and change my life before I could bring something else into my life, it was a plan that I decided on upon in life. But it wasn't easy to sit and wait for it to happen. I watch many conversations go forward and backwards and changes happening and then goal posts moving. But it was good because I started to see the workings of things and the dynamics. Which was important for me. I needed to see that. 

So when things are dragging out, just remember that there is a reason for it and you have to know it's happening at the pace it's supposed to happen… sometimes at a snails pace! Wait, your time is coming. 

Much love and hugs

Lisa xx