This isn't a long one, as I have no Internet connection... Oh how we
rely in it!

It's rare that I am stuck without it, but I am here. The hotel I'm
staying at had lost all the computers and Internet. So I'm emailing it
in on roaming and we all know how hit and miss that can be!

Anyway we finally got to the hotel for the wedding tomorrow and after
looking around the quaint town, where I have just found a new supplier
of jewelry and crystals :) we headed back to the hotel.

Of course we met up with the bride and some of her friends. She had
not told anyone I was going and one lady had actually booked tickets
to come to one of my shows.

We just said hi and it wad one of those moments when I went up to
someone and started a reading.

Of course I always get their permission but sometimes it just comes
out. In conversation, I could be talking about how I get info and then
suddenly I will say something random. Today was one of those times.

I started saying hi and then she said that she wad coming to one of my
shows and asked me how to try to create the energy so that her loved
one would come. I out of the blue said, "bring along the silk scarf
your mom left you and you always wear her ring so that's great!"

Well that was it!!! It started to flow and her mom and dad and friends
who had passed started to come in for her and her sister. Incredible
really. I didn't ask for it but it happened and I wasn't even open.

Sometimes you can't stop it coming through the message has to come in!

So I'm heading off to get reading for the wedding.

Hopefully I'll be back tomorrow. If your in America, happy 4th of July!!

Hugs

Lisa xx

The reason why we have planned our trip now, is so that we can attend the wedding of two very dear people who I used to read for. Finally after (I don't know how many years) they are getting married. I saw them through the beginning of their relationship all the way through and now it's great that Kev and I were invited to the wedding.

It's so nice when you see people go from the beginning all the way through, not to the end, but to the point that they were striving for, it's such a great feeling. I know that they are made for each other and we will be heading down to the wedding tomorrow ready for the big day on saturday!

Its' great that they have a happy ending, but it's not always an easy ride. Relationship aren't. Whoever put the thought into my head that as soon as you get married it's easy... well they need sense knocking into them. I'm sure thats what everyone believes. But in fact I feel you have to continue to try. Just like any relationship, even friendships. It's give and take.

Kev and I have had our tough times as have most people. Its never plain sailing, you get stuck in ruts and the the 'rules' change (if there were any rules anyway) but it changes.

Some people are ready to change in a relationship and then there are others that are not willing to change, and if they are together as a couple then you will find that they drift apart. Fortunately I have a hubby who is more open to change than I am... and thats saying something so I am very lucky but it's not easy.

I know that there are too many people ready to give up their relationships/friendships before even trying, but for me it's a commitment that I will flog until the end... I'm not sure why I am writing this because Kev and I couldn't be happier. We are a family built on trust, and we all have a great relationship which also includes Charlie. We are a family and bond that at the moment (and hopefully never) I can't imagine breaking.

I see it so many times, where people come to me because they need advice about their relationship and whether they should stay or go. I can't make up peoples minds and tell them what to do, but what does go through my mind, is that when we go into this realtionship, certainly a marriage we are going in it with our eyes open and knowing what is ahead. I look at my parents who are still together after 37 years and are happier now than they ever have.

However, having said that, you can't stay in a place of negativity and unhappiness. So if you feel its something that you can't salvage, you have to find a way to be strong, and move forward and say goodbye to your past, and know that you can achieve anything you wish. You can start again and pick up the pieces. I have had to do it, and it's daughting, but what you have to know, is that taking life a step at a time and not rushing forward with a snap decision you will be fine. You WILL survive. Yes it may be tough and difficult and heartbreaking but you CAN do it!

Time to be strong and stand up for what you want in life. Be happy and that is the most important thing.

Start with smiling today and have fun in whatever you do!

Have a great day

With love

Lisa xx

You know I have been writing this blog for over a year, and at the time I never thought I would make it through 2 weeks let alone a year. Yes there are times that I don't blog as it's crazy and I'm so tired at the end of the day and then there are times that I wonder what to write about, and then there are those other times that I plan my blog all day.

It's crazy. And I often think my life is so mundane and wonder why everyone is so interested, but yesterdays blog summed it up really. We are all facinated with peoples lives. We like to help and nurture people. And what was interesting, I suddenly realized during a meeting today, that we need to hear about other peoples lives to help us with our own life.

I was chatting about doing a TV show, and how it's very real life and what people will get from it, and it's amazing how many people struggle in private. We struggle with so many things from confidence to losing weight, to losing hair to losing a loved one and many more issues. But to read about someone elses life, can help. It can either give you that escapisum, where you are wrapped up in someones life for a time, or it can show you that, those people have normal lives and real issues too.

I think it's important especially now to face these issues, but you have to face them in the way that is right for you. If you don't want to publically express them, then that is fine... you don't have to but what you have to remember is that there is always someone who will be there to help you.

Now some of you will say .. yeah yeah... however, it's actually true. You can privately face them and talk to some one who is willing to listen, or you can face them on your own and work through them. However if you watch someone else going through the same as you, it can give you the confidence to stand up and work towards being stronger.

I have done it myself. I had an issue with a situation and I hid my fear and my problem from so many people, however then I watched how other people handled it... and it helped me. It helped me find the strength to say, hey... I need help.

Incidentally, it was around that time that I started my blog too and I know I poured my heart out in them knowing that I was being helped and that my life could help others, and it did.

Many people are in the same boat at the moment with jobs, the economy and life, but standing together and helping out so many is important. Just talking through the issues can help. It can help you find a solution or a way around things.

However, the time that you get fed up listening to yourself or getting bored with repeating the same old stuff... is the time you have to look at your life and make a change. Maybe you have been given a new beginning for a reason, a career change, a new opportunity, a time to leave the past behind and move forward and start again.

Make a plan and stick to it. believe in yourself and know that our lives are all predestined, but we still have free will to make a change!

Whoa, I am not sure where that came from... but I tend to brain dump when I blog! ha ha ha

Ok back to the mountain of emails to get through, have a great day/night where ever you are.

With love

Lisa xx

I have been doing a crazy load of interviews today ready for some of my tour dates, and I love doing all the interviews but it seems so apparant that people are celebrity crazy! What is the deal!

Yes it's fascinating to have an 'in' on peoples lives and the reality TV has crazed the world, but now it seems totally over the top. It is just my opinion of course but it's very interesting. Every one today wanted to know which celebrity I had read for and what was the scoop in hollywood!!!  Also do I get star struck.

It's funny, because yes I have that moment of... OMG I'm sitting with .... but then I switch and go straight into professionaly mode, it's really interesting. It's just the way I am. However I did get all gooey and star struck when I met John Edward the first time... I sat on Oprah's stage and I think I stroked his arm several times... it was so funny!! and then when he met me coming out of the lift and I was heading home, he gave me this massive hug, which I was like.... OMG John Edward Hugged ME! ha ha ha

But for me people are people and we are all the same. We all eat, sleep and drink and go to the bathroom. No one is any different at all. Yes some of us, have chosen to be in front of the camera's but that doesn't make us any different or special. We are who we are.

I always get really shocked when people meet me and tell me that they are nervous. I say... it's just me... I am like you. But it's true. It doesn't make me any different.

So that's my opinion and its just an observation. And yes while it was a little celebrity crazed, I did have a lot of fun today chatting with them, and I had some great interviews! I spoke to Russell Grant today, this amazing astrologer, and I used to read his horoscopes years ago... and he was chatting to me on the phone... now that was a little surreal!

Anyway... time to head off, and I'll be back soon!

With love

Lisa xx

We are all having a great time on holiday! Charlie is having so much fun and Kev and I are having a blast. Its been great!

Tonight was the first time I saw for real what I say.... for instance, when I see an ambulance I always say, lady having a baby, and when I see the fire department out I saw, "cat stuck up a tree" welll tonight was true... We saw a fire engine and then another, and realised they were trying to rescue the cat stuck up a building!!!

They had the cherry picker out and everything and eventually (even after I told them where the cat was and them telling me they were waiting for aminal services to come" they left! I couldn't believe that they left that poor cat up 4 stories high, on a ledge... but the question was, where were the owners??

If you had just gone down a story you would have been able to open a window and allow the cat to jump through, but no.... that didn;t happen... all the spectators were saying that but no one was allowed near the building,.. so we couldn't :(

Even the fire brigade went up in the ladders but they didn't rescue it as they didn't want to scare it off... I sat there for at least an hour afterwards watching the building to see how the cat was.. it's still sitting up there now... :(

Such a shame.

Some times we can't do anything it's all out of our control. All we can do is think good thoughts and send positive vibes out to those who need it and hope that the universe has a plan. It's often out of our hands. We have to accept that, and know that we can't heal everyone. It's  tough lesson to learn, but one I had to learn from a young age!

Hugs and love

Lisa xx